No 3 — Harriman: Be more goose (Part 1)
Overwhelm and stress aren’t healthy, I suggest we all need to be more goose.
In my very first job, working for the best ad agency in the land at the time, I gave everything, late nights, long weekends, always going above and beyond not because they demanded it, but because I felt the need to. Then one day an account handler walked in with a ridiculous request, expecting me to magically fix their problem, right now, dropping everything else.
This was the final straw, I snapped, giving them a piece of my mind as I had nothing left to give! So I went out for a walk and sat on a bench next to the serpentine, fuming, considering handing in my notice, and contemplating life, while watching a couple of geese drift past in front of me.
Intrigued by two geese serenely swimming, approaching each other. They stopped swimming, climbed out and turned to face each other. Then without warning they go at it, and I mean they really go at it! Hooting, squawking, flapping, pecking, flurry of feathers, it was thuggery of the goose kind. Then as soon as they started, they stopped, did an about turn and both entered the water and swam off back the way they came, like nothing had happened.
In that moment, that’s when it hit me, that I need to “Be More Goose” or as another avian idiom would suggest, deal with it, let it out, if you need to… then move on. “Like water off a duck’s back”